It kills. Really. It does.
When a person starts to expect something out of some things.. (*y'noe what I mean*) it's like they booked a ticket for their heartbreak show - soon.
Obviously, people start to expect things that are not finish yet. That's why they tend to make up their very own endings based on their hopes.
Try to think, by expecting (hoping) somethings, you can be dissapointed and heartbroken whats worst -
you gave up.
For not achieving the expectations.
Sounds very unhealthy to me.